Its hard to believe today marks 3 years since my Dad past away. I confess this year, it feels less significant as my thoughts and heart have been more preoccupied with my Mother's passing in May.
I wanted to just list some things about him that I remember, because no matter what people say time DOES fade memories. I do not believe his spirit is still here or that he lives in my heart or memories --- that doesn't mean he is absent from my life, my thoughts, and my heart. I just believe that it is my responsibility to intentionally remember him so that I won't forget.
One of the ways I remember him most, almost on a weekly basis is observing my Danny. They say little girls are drawn to men that are like their fathers. If you know Danny or Mr. Snead, you know there isn't anyone in the check-out line, the drive-thru or ANY public setting that either of them won't engage in friendly exchange with. Ask Danny, and he will tell you after I've seen him joke or be friendly to someone, I say, "I married Jack Snead."
- My father loved people
- He cherished me
- He SPOILED me
- He liked to dance but looked a little weird at it
- He let me stand on his feet when we danced together
- He use to say to me "There's the pretty girl!"
- He spanked me with a belt (ouch!)
- His nick name for me was "Jack-Jack"
- I have many memories of him fully supporting me in all my school activities
- He was generous in telling me he loved me and was proud of me

